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  • 8 Wedding Ideas to Make Your Reception Unique!

    8 Wedding Ideas to Make Your Reception Unique!

    Here are 8 wedding ideas to add that bit of spark to your reception…

    Special Message

    Record a private message from the bride and groom and have it played over an instrumental piece of music during the first dance or the cake cutting.

    Unique Reception

    This also works well with a slow and romantic song, which your DJ can dedicate to everyone present who’s in love.

    Guests Sing a Song

    If one of your guests is an “idol” he can sing a special song dedicated to the bride and groom. However, incorporating karaoke into your reception activities is not recommended-it can be a bit tacky if not done right!

    And your inebriated Uncle Bob might not want to give up the mic.

    Theme Music for Entrance

    Add your own favourite TV or movie theme music at some point during your reception. This can be part of the bridal party introduction, or you can use it to herald your other events such as the cake cutting or games.

    Dollar Dance

    If dollar dances are traditional in your region, then by all means have one at your wedding. Your DJ will know what type of song to play. You can have the traditional type, with the bride and groom dancing for a brief time with each guest who pays a dollar-and who also gets a small drink of a beverage.

    Many people make a game out of the dollar dance. You might ask the ushers and bridesmaids to dance among the guests doing the Chicken Dance, collecting dollars.

    Others prefer to forego the tradition of collecting money from their guests-but you can still do this dance by having people write down their good wishes for you instead of giving you money.

    They can put the slips of paper with wishes on them into a box and have their brief dance with you. Later, you will enjoy reading these good wishes from your guests.

    Streamer Exit

    As the bride and groom depart, it’s fun to give rolls of streamers to the guests, which they can unfurl as you pass through the arch during the Grand Finale.

    Slideshow and Video Show

    A video montage, PowerPoint presentation, or Image slideshow can be played at some point during the reception.

    They are gaining in popularity, and it’s a way to show the chronology of your relationship to your guests.

    During dinner is a good time; it should last between five to ten minutes, and you can even set it up for looped playing. Image slideshows that are looped can run all night after the bridal dance.

    Goldfish Wedding Ideas

    Original centrepiece ideas are always welcome. A wonderful new idea is a bowl containing one or two goldfish as the table centrepiece. You can also use a taller vase that holds a Beta fish with a water flower floating on top.

    These make great conversation, but you have to manage them carefully to maintain fish safety.

    Other Entertainment

    Whatever extra entertainment you consider, make sure it is performed at the right time during your reception.

    And, as with everything else, it should reflect your own personal style. Entertainment options to consider include…

    • Magicians
    • Balloon makers
    • Fire twirlers
    • Belly dancers
    • Comedian
    • Animal / Reptile Showcase (where guests can touch snakes, etc.)
    • Petting zoo (especially popular for outdoor receptions for family networks that include many children)
    • A guest with an original talent (as long as this is a true talent)

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  • A Backup Plan if Your Wedding Entertainment Fails

    A Backup Plan if Your Wedding Entertainment Fails

    Nobody likes to think of disaster on their wedding day.

    But the unexpected does occur.

    What can you do if your wedding entertainment or DJ can’t make it? Something could happen like…

    • Sickness or Accident
    • Equipment Failure
    • Total inexperience-he shows up but has no idea how to create a party, and he’s nothing like you expected?

    Hey… It happens and it could happen at your wedding. When you hire your DJ, ask him if he has backup gear in the event of equipment breakdown.

    Does he bring it with him?

    If not, how far away is it?

    If he becomes dreadfully ill on your wedding day, does he have an associate who is willing and available to fill the void?

    These are vital questions to ask when you book your entertainment because…

    No Music = No Fun.

    Young puppy listening to music on a head set.

    What if you and your friends have to figure out an entertainment solution?

    Wedding Music Backup Plan

    One of the simplest options is have an iPod with at least three to four hours of Easy Listening music and three to four hours of solid dancing songs, already loaded and ready to go.

    Prepare for this contingency ahead of your wedding. The two of you can do this alone, or make a party of it with your attendants.

    Create your playlists on your iPods or MAC / Notebook Computer.

    Assign one group to create a playlist for Easy Listening music, and the other group can put together a playlist for dance songs.

    From these lists you can burn as many CDs as you need to cover your reception.

    There are some tips for mixing genres and beats that will help you create a more interesting mix for the guests.

    The first is to play two or three songs from one genre before switching to another.

    From my experience as a DJ attending many, many weddings, believe me when I tell you: The same genre played for a long time can get a little repetitive for your diverse generation of guests.

    Besides the genre, it’s also a good idea to change the tempo about every three or four songs. Different genres typically play at different beats per minute.

    Start with some slower standards or even Rhythm & Blues, which plays at around 90 beats per minute. Most Pop songs play at 125-140 beats per minute, which just happens to be the same as the average human heart rate during exercise such as -guess what- dancing!

    Your guests will move onto and off of the dance floor every three or four songs, to take a breather or get a drink. The tempo of the music serves as a subconscious signal to people. The trick is to start with the slower music and then boost the tempo every three or four songs.

    Eventually you’ll reach a pounding, fast beat-double the speed of RnB then you drop it back down again.

    This is something a professional DJ knows how to do.

    And only a professional knows how to work the crowd, when to interject comments and how to introduce segments of your wedding.

    But if you’re preparing for emergencies, then pay attention to this as you put your own playlist together.

    These playlist/s won’t do you any good if you don’t have a first-rate way to play them.

    So the second thing you need is a sound system.

    You could get away with a decent home sound system, but I very strongly recommend hiring some professional equipment.

    You should choose something like a couple of Mackie Powered SRM450’s or JBL EON G2 Speakers with a small mixer also.

    You don’t need to worry about extraneous equipment such as speaker stands and so forth. You’ll only be using this as a backup plan if worst comes to worst.

    You can place these speakers on the floor.

    You will need a few cables and an RCA to 3.5mm jack to hook your ipod/music player to the mixer.

    A sound equipment hire store will be able to provide all of this for you. If your venue does not have an in-house microphone, we suggest renting a Microphone also.

    Microphone

    The cost of this depends on how resourceful you are, but you may be able to “borrow” an iPod and sound system from one of your guests to save even more dollars.

    It’s important to test the backup system at your home a few days before or at least have one of your guests test it.

    If you’ve hired a solid and reliable DJ or band that you have 100% faith in, then use your best judgment.

    If you’re not so sure…implement the “No Worries Backup Plan”

    In case you’re wondering, it is possible to iPod a Wedding in Full, but we generally do not recommend it over using a “real human” entertainer.

    A good DJ or band will be able to pick up on your guests’ vibe and turn that into a great celebration.

    It takes a professional to know the right songs to match the vibe. An iPod, jukebox or computer will never be able to do that.

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  • The Top 200 Most Requested Wedding DJ Songs

    The Top 200 Most Requested Wedding DJ Songs

    As you assemble your list of favourite songs, whether they’re intended to play during the traditions we have listed here at Secret Wedding Songs or specifically for the dancing, look at our list to jog your memory.

    For a live list of the Top 200 Most requested Wedding Songs check out the following list…

    Top 200 Most Requested Wedding Songs

    This list is created by actual selections made by thousands of brides and grooms around the world.

    Wedding DJ List

    The best part of this list is that it’s an up to date live database!

    As of January 2014 here is a little sample of the Top 50 songs – How long is Don’t stop believin gonna stick around??…

    1JourneyDon’t Stop Believin’
    2Black Eyed PeasI Gotta Feeling
    3CupidCupid Shuffle
    4LmfaoSexy And I Know It
    5Bon JoviLivin’ On A Prayer
    6AC/DCYou Shook Me All Night Long
    7PsyGangnam Style
    8Morrison, VanBrown Eyed Girl
    9Diamond, NeilSweet Caroline (Good Times Never Seemed So Good)
    10DJ CasperCha Cha Slide
    11B-52’sLove Shack
    12BeyonceSingle Ladies (Put A Ring On It)
    13Jepsen, Carly RaeCall Me Maybe
    14Maroon 5 Feat. Christina AguileraMoves Like Jagger
    15Def LeppardPour Some Sugar On Me
    16BeatlesTwist And Shout
    17V.I.C.Wobble
    18Lmfao Feat. Lauren Bennett And Goon RockParty Rock Anthem
    19Usher Feat. Ludacris & Lil’ JonYeah
    20Jackson, MichaelBillie Jean
    21Rihanna Feat. Calvin HarrisWe Found Love
    22Macklemore & Ryan Lewis Feat. WanzThrift Shop
    23PinkRaise Your Glass
    24OutkastHey Ya!
    25Isley BrothersShout
    26Sir Mix-A-LotBaby Got Back
    27Lynyrd SkynyrdSweet Home Alabama
    28Mars, BrunoMarry You
    29Timberlake, JustinSexyback
    30Brooks, GarthFriends In Low Places
    31LumineersHo Hey
    32Lady Gaga Feat. Colby O’donisJust Dance
    33Clapton, EricWonderful Tonight
    34Sinatra, FrankThe Way You Look Tonight
    35Sister SledgeWe Are Family
    36TemptationsMy Girl
    37Loggins, KennyFootloose
    38TrainMarry Me
    39Kool & The GangCelebration
    40Seger, Bob & The Silver Bullet BandOld Time Rock & Roll
    41Cruz, TaioDynamite
    42James, EttaAt Last
    43Houston, WhitneyI Wanna Dance With Somebody (Who Loves Me)
    44Vanilla IceIce Ice Baby
    45Bryan, LukeCountry Girl (Shake It For Me)
    46Daft Punk Feat. Pharrell WilliamsGet Lucky
    47Jackson, MichaelThriller
    48Pitbull Feat. Ne-Yo, Afrojack & NayerGive Me Everything
    49ABBADancing Queen
    50Flo RidaGood Feeling

    You’ll have the opportunity to see the most popular songs being played at weddings today…and not five years ago!

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  • Bridal Party Introduction Songs from 2000 to 2010

    Bridal Party Introduction Songs from 2000 to 2010

    Below is a list of popular bridal party entrance songs from between the years 2000 to 2010.

    Bridesmaids bridal party

    Pic by David Clow on Flickr

    If you have a song you would like to add to the list, let us know in the comments area at the bottom of the page!

    Bridal Party Introduction Songs – 2000 to 2010

    Are You Gonna be my Girl –  Jet
    2003 | Youtube

    Beautiful Day – U2
    2000 | Youtube

    Bring Em Out – T.I. (feat Jay Z)
    2004 | Youtube

    Ch-Check it Out – Beastie Boys
    2004 | Youtube

    Crazy in Love – Beyonce
    2003 | Youtube

    Don’t Cha – Pussycat Dolls
    2006 | Youtube

    Forever – Chris Brown
    2008 | Youtube

    Home – Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeros
    2009 | Youtube

    I Believe in a Thing Called Love – The Darkness
    2002 | Youtube

    I Gotta Feeling – Black Eyed Peas
    2009 | Youtube

    Let’s Get it Started – Black Eyed Peas
    2004 | Youtube

    Let’s Get Loud – J Lo (Jennifer Lopez)
    2000 | Youtube

    Let’s Get Married Remix – Jagged Edge (feat Run DMC)
    2001 | Youtube

    Love Today – Mika
    2007 | Youtube

    One More Time – Daft Punk
    2000 | Youtube

    Party Like a Rock Star – Shop Boyz
    2008 | Youtube

    Say Hey – Michael Franti & Spearhead
    2009 | Youtube

    Seven Nation Army – White Stripes
    2003 | Youtube

    Check out more bridal party entrance songs from all years.

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  • Bridal Party Introduction Songs for the 2010’s

    Bridal Party Introduction Songs for the 2010’s

    Below are some of the most popular bridal party entrance songs from 2010 onwards.

    Dynamite – Taio Cruz
    2010 | Youtube

    Feel so Close – Calvin Harris
    2011 | Youtube

    Feel the Love – Rudimental
    2012 | Youtube

    Get Lucky – Daft Punk
    2013 | Youtube

    Good Feeling – Flo Rida
    2011 | Youtube

    Marry You – Bruno Mars
    2011 | Youtube

    Marry You (Cover) – Glee Cast
    2010 | Youtube

    Party Rock Anthem – LMFAO
    2011 | Youtube

    Raise Your Glass – Pink
    2010 | Youtube

    Something’s Got a Hold of Me – Cristina Aguilera
    2010 | Youtube

    Sexy and I Know It – LMFAO
    2011 | Youtube

    Check out more Bridal Party Entrance songs from 50s, 60s, 80s, 90s and 2000s.

    If you have a recent entrance song you would like to share, let us know in the comments area below.

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  • Tips for Listening to Your Wedding Songs & Building a Playlist

    Tips for Listening to Your Wedding Songs & Building a Playlist

    It’s a lot of fun to pick out the songs that you’ll play for all of your wedding traditions.

    The two of you will be thinking of the songs you’ve had as favourites all of your lives, or the songs that mark your special moments.  So how do you make your choices?

    wedding-rings

    There is a simple and easy way to listen to your songs in full before you buy them on CD or from iTunes.  Most of you already know about this place-but, for the less internet savvy people, it’s…

    YouTube!

    All you do is type the name of the song and the artist into the YouTube search bar.

    At Last Etta James Screenshot

    You’ll find that most of the time someone has posted a clip with lyrics,  or you may even find the original “official” video clip to the song.

    It’s also an opportunity to give covers by other artists a listen.

    Although some songs may not play with top quality sound, you will be able to listen to the entire song, in most cases.

    This is an advantage over iTunes or Amazon, where you get only a thirty second sample-which might not be enough to determine if that song is the right one for your wedding tradition.

    Update as of 2013 – iTunes now offers a listen of up to a minute and half on most songs.

    Finding Lyrics to Your Songs

    You can also find the lyrics for just about any song that’s ever been commercially released. It’s as simple as listening to it on YouTube.

    Getting to know the lyrics for say your first dance is extremely important as you most likely want them to be optimistic.

    Some songs have great music for a first dance but the lyrics may be inappropriate for the occasion or taint the great music.

    Just go to your Google search bar and type the song’s title and artist, followed by the word “lyrics,” into Google. If you’re an internet novice, you’ll find this is very easy, and 99% of the time you will go straight to the lyrics you’re seeking.

    Try it out by going to Google and typing this into the search bar:

    at last etta james lyrics

    Google Lyric Search

    If you’re ready to give this a try, you can access Google Search here…

    www.google.com

    Or try a new alternative Duck Duck Go at…

    duckduckgo.com

    Getting Your Songs onto CD

    Most engaged couples want to assemble all their favourite songs onto one CD.

    Some newlyweds just love to have a wedding music CD so they can listen to the songs that have meaning for them any time they wish.

    Others decide to go all out with this and create music CDs as wedding favours for their guests – which does have copyright implications!

    The first step is sourcing your music and the easiest, legal way to do this is to install iTunes. If you haven’t already installed it, it’s available here:

    http://www.apple.com/downloads

    iTunes lets you listen to a clean thirty second sample of each song. The cost of the full song is only $1.69 each in Australia or 99 cents in the U.S., with comparable prices in other countries.

    In 2009 Apple began offering DRM-free songs for $1.29 (U.S. dollars). That means you can purchase higher quality downloads without being restricted on the number or types of devices that you can use for song play.

    While iTunes fully expects at least half of its five-million-song library to be DRM-free possibly by the time you read this, the less expensive versions will still be available.

    Whichever version you choose, once you have purchased your music you can then easily burn it onto an Audio CD (within iTunes). This makes it playable in any CD player.

    Important iTunes CD Burning Tip

    TIP – Tick the option to “Include CD TEXT” data to Audio CD in the iTunes Preferences -> Advanced -> Burning section.

    This will allow your Mp3 Ripping software to pickup up the Track Name & Title information from the CD so you do not have to type it out again!

    One thing to note with iTunes and most other legal song download sites, is songs from some major artists such as ACDC, etc., are not available for download as of yet.

    The record companies have not released the digital download versions. So you will have to buy these songs on CD…

    Once you have all your songs, either on an iTunes backup CD-and it makes sense to back-up your purchases in any event-or an original purchased CD, you can then format shift (rip) these back into an MP3 format.

    Just search for CDEX..

    http://www.download.com

    How you categorise your music is really up to you. Software which will help with your MP3 tags (this is information to categorise your MP3’s) and sorting is Tagsmart.

    Get into the habit of adding the correct tags early to your MP3’s in your database-building days.

    Before you realize it your collection will have grown quite large, and adding the tags will be a headache. Do it now, and this will save you a lot of time in years to come.

    MP3Tag Feeware Software

    The best software for playing your music for general listening is Winamp.

    This allows songs to seamlessly fade into each other and create huge playlists you can save with little effort.

    Winamp can also be useful for dinner music playlists at weddings and it’s also a perfect software for use in restaurants and cafés.

    Winamp for PC Screenshot

    Get the latest version of Winamp Here…

    http://www.winamp.com

    Do you use a software that helps organise your music? Let us know in the comments area below.

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  • Popular 2000s Bouquet Toss Songs

    Popular 2000s Bouquet Toss Songs

    Below is a list of popular bouquet toss songs from the year 2000 through to 2010. If you have a song idea from era you are using for your bouquet toss, let us know in the comments section at the bottom of the page.

    Aint No Other Man – Christina Aguilera
    2006 | Youtube

    Bad Romance – Lady Gaga
    2009 | Youtube

    Catch My Disease – Ben Lee
    2005 | Youtube

    Don’t Cha – Pussycat Dolls
    2006 | Youtube

    Haven’t Met You Yet – Michael Buble
    2009 | Youtube

    Milkshake – Kelis
    2003 | Youtube

    Hollaback Girl – Gwen Stefani
    2005 | Youtube

    Lady Marmalade – Missy Elliot / Mya / Pink
    2001 | Youtube

    Single Ladies (Put a Ring on it) – Beyonce
    2008 | Youtube

    Superwoman – Alicia Keys
    2008 | Youtube

    What a Girl Wants – Christina Aguilera
    2000 | Youtube

    You’ll also find more Bouquet Toss songs from all years here.

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  • Tips for Finding the Perfect Wedding Dress

    Tips for Finding the Perfect Wedding Dress

    Where do you start when choosing a Wedding Dress?

    Designer, one off, custom made, vintage, passed down through the family or off the rack. It’s a special decision, very personal and important.

    Bride on Bed with Wedding Dress

    Once you have decided your Wedding Date, you know how much time you have to get your dress and consider what your dress budget will be; some dress’s can start from $400 up to $5000 or more

    Traditionally the Wedding Dress is White, also including creams, ivory’s, eggshells and ecru. Consisting of main dress, train, tiara and veil.

    Today anything goes, colour, style, shape depending on your religious/cultural background or Wedding themed choice.

    Start a folder of clipping and cut outs of Wedding outfits to get a visual of what you are looking for.Yes – A Vision Board!

    This will help if you intend to get a dress custom made or pre- made off the rack, you can discuss the dress better when you can see what you are wanting.

    Getting a family member, friend or bridesmaid to help you choose a dress can be a great way to give you feed back and their first impression of you in the dress.  (Not too many people at once as it may be too loud and confusing at the fitting)

    When going to a fitting you may have to make appointment or try to go on a weekday when it’s not so busy. Wear your hair in a style similar to how it will be on your wedding day, up or down for example to get a visual of the whole look.

    Wear correct underwear and shoes that will be similar to what you are wearing on the day.

    Keeping an open mind when you are trying on dresses is best, they will look very different on the rack as when on your body.

    Try on a few styles and different shapes to see what best suits your body figure and shape. There are five basic shapes, silhouettes to consider, A line, empire line, traditional ball gown, mermaid and princess line. Remember to feel comfortable in your dress, you will have to sit, stand and enjoy yourself in your dress.

    Try not to rush into getting anything unless it’s perfect for you. If you try on too many dresses in one day you may be overwhelmed. Take your time and do it over a few weeks, unless of course you find the perfect dress, then don’t hesitate and purchase it or place a deposit on it.

    Fabrics are also a big decision in the Wedding dress choice. If you are buying pre-made, check the fabrics suitability, summer or winter depending on your wedding date etc. If you are getting your dress custom made, discuss your style with your dress maker and they will be able to recommend what are the best suitable fabrics and where to purchase them.

    Also considering your bridesmaids at this time is a good idea, as some fabrics are seasonal and not readily available, you may want to purchase them at the same time.

    Your vision of your wedding style and theme, indoor or outdoor will help you choose your dress along with these tips to finding your perfect, beautiful Wedding Dress.

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  • Decorating the Bridal Arch at the Wedding Ceremony

    Decorating the Bridal Arch at the Wedding Ceremony

    The arch is one of the most important pieces of decoration at your wedding whether created by your guests or you have a solid structure. It symbolizes the union of both sides bonding.

    Ceremony Bridal Arch

    Decorate your wedding arch to show your unique style.

    A winter wedding would be breath taking with Christmas lights draped on a bridal arch. You could add holly branches, mistletoe, or wreaths with bows. All the decorations can be easily attached with florist’s wire.

    Bridal arches are available in a variety of materials, colors, heights, and shapes. Whether you shop for a plain or fancy bridal arch, one can be found to make all your wedding wishes come true.

    Did You Know?…

    The term ‘Bridal’ came from a brew the bride and groom drank referred to as “bride’s ale”.

    For an outdoor spring wedding, you could select a white lattice arch and weave pastel floral arrangements through out.

    If your heart’s desire is a beach theme wedding, cover the arch using nets, starfish, and other seashells.

    The wedding arch could be decorated with balloons. At the end of the ceremony, you release the balloons. Place a personal message in each balloon with your names, the date, and location of the wedding. Imagine who may find the notes, a total stranger.. who will feel included in your happy day!

    After the ceremony, the photographer will arrange group-wedding pictures in front of the bridal arch. If you plan to have a receiving line, the arch provides a lovely backdrop for the bride and groom.

    To set butterflies or doves free after taking marriage vows, is a symbol of the man and wife taking flight into the future.

    Releasing two doves is an old tradition, and if the doves fly in the same direction, it is considered good luck.

    I hope that this will not be a shotgun wedding, for the dove’s sake!

    If your wedding reception is planned for evening, guests could hold sparklers as you make your long awaited getaway.

    It would make a perfect ending, with your path lit as you pass through the bridal arch by the gathered well-wishers.

    For guests to throw rice as the married couple makes the wedding reception grand exit is a long-standing tradition.

    Throwing rice or confetti began as a belief it would bring fertility to the bride. In recent times, there were claims made that rice posed a threat to birds. Some members of wedding parties have opted to toss birdseed.

    Before the wedding reception grand exit, it is customary for the bride to toss her bouquet to the crowd of unwed women attending the ceremony. The belief is that the lucky person who catches the flowers will be the next to marry.

    In some parts of the country, the bride throws one of her shoes. Ouch, that is going to leave a mark! I am assuming she expects the shoe to be returned.

    Do not forget that the bridal arch can be an important detail for your wedding plans.

    Make sure to locate one early enough for the wedding reception grand exit or get your guests to form one so you can through it with your new life partner.

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  • Three Fun Ways to Give Away Your Wedding Bouquet

    Three Fun Ways to Give Away Your Wedding Bouquet

    Years ago, giving away the bridal bouquet was de rigueur at any wedding.  For today’s brides, tossing the bridal bouquet has become optional.

    About ten years ago, it became trendier not to throw the bouquet because people worried about offending unmarried friends by singling them out as such.

    Bouquet Throw

    Happily, however, bouquet tossing has come back into style.

    If you’ve decided to hold the bouquet toss, what are the three most fun ways to give away your wedding bouquet? We have some fabulous ideas for you right here.

    1.    Traditional Bouquet Toss

    Why not opt for the traditional bouquet toss? Your wedding DJ will call for all single ladies to come up to the dance floor. You might even want to have him ask for all eligible ladies to present themselves, and that way you’re not identifying anyone as single, widowed, divorced, or something in between.

    You’ve got to have a fun song with it, of course.  To commemorate this occasion as one in which the ladies are getting a bit naughty, ask the DJ to play something fun and bouncy.

    •    It’s Raining Men by the Pointer Sisters
    •    Girls Just Wanna Have Fun by Cyndi Lauper
    •    Lady Marmalade by Pink, Mya, Christina Aguilera, and L’il Kim.
    •    This One’s For the Girls by Martina McBride (for a little country twist)
    •    Dancing Queen by ABBA
    •    Ladies Night by Kool and the Gang
    •    Chapel of Love by the Dixie Cups (for something really retro)
    •    Haven’t Met You Yet by Michael Buble (for something a little more restrained)
    •    Pour Some Sugar On Me by Def Leppard
    •    Pretty Woman by Roy Orbison

    You’ll find more Bouquet Toss song ideas here.

    Now, the trick is that you really don’t want to toss away the beautiful bouquet that you chose to walk up the aisle. And there’s a less expensive alternative to paying the florist for a throwaway bouquet. Instead, get one of your older female relatives like a great auntie to make a bouquet with flowers made out of tissue paper.

    It’s a way to give one of your older relatives some recognition for a role in the wedding—you can thank her in your wedding program for creating the beautiful throwaway bouquet.

    2.    Honour Someone Special

    Use your bouquet toss to single out someone really special to you.  You and your groom can discuss this together, because it can be someone on either side of your families. If there’s a special lady out there, perhaps someone who has been like another mother to one of you, someone who has achieved something recently or overcome an illness, or perhaps a great-grandmother, awarding her the bouquet would be a gracious gesture.

    Your wedding DJ will know the perfect way to announce this event and introduce the lady in question.  An alternative option is to hold an anniversary dance. This is when all married couples are called to the dance floor, and the DJ calls for those who have been married less than a year, up to five years, up to 10 years, and so on, to be seated. The last couple standing will be the couple married the longest, and you can give them the bouquet.

    3.    Make It a Ladies Special

    Getting back to the idea that you don’t want to line up all your unmarried female friends as exhibits on your dance floor, why not go one better and turn it into a Sadie Hawkins event?

    You can first call all eligible females to the dance floor and have them participate in a line dance such as the Boot Scootin’ Boogie by Brooks and Dunn or maybe the Nutbush by Tina?

    Too Cheesy?

    We Are Young by fun is another good choice.

    Let everybody know that the music will fade out in a minute and you’ll be tossing the bouquet. After it’s caught, all the ladies can disperse and find a male partner to bring to the dance floor as the song continues.

    You can even appoint some uncles or male cousins as ready escorts for any ladies who seem like they don’t know whom to ask. You not only have a great time tossing the bouquet, and you also get everybody up and dancing!

    Any of these events will provide lots of laughter and opportunity for chat afterward.

    These are the activities that will make your wedding day memorable—the things that you and your friends will talk about long after the last guest has had the last hug of the night.

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